Introduction to why I created Musha Parenting


Musha Parenting

Hello all,
I wanted to create a blog about parenting and by doing so, create my own virtual village. A village that was open to different views but supportive.  I am privileged to be the Mum to two beautiful, loving children and they are my passion. My son is currently in year 6 and my daughter is in year 4 and we live in a lovely market town.  My aim for the blog thus far, is literally to post articles, podcasts etc that I find speak to me on this adventure they call parenting.  Having been lucky enough to be born and raised in Zimbabwe, the african proverb above resonated with me.  Musha is the shona word (one of the local languages spoken in Zimbabwe) for village.    Hence my blogs name.

I am trying to create my own virtual village, so please get involved.  

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